Messy blog with everything ranging from things that enrage me, things that I desire and things that I simply adore. Things of importance to me, in short.
"What this is really about is men accusing feminists of sexism and hypocrisy unless they can prove that they spend exactly half of their time, energy, and resources on campaigning on behalf of men. What this is really about is that if feminism only improves the lives of women, it has no value or importance. What this is really about is that feminism only has value if it works on behalf of men and improves the lives of men. What this is really about is anti-feminist men being threatened by women working for women. What they’re really saying is that to talk about women, to focus on women, to point out that something affects women badly; all of this is of no importance or value. It’s classic, really - because men are not always the focus of attention of feminism, these anti-feminists can’t stand it.”
Catherine Redfern (via lipsredasroses)

I’m not sure what everyone who follows me’s relationship status is….but I really hope you all read the link below if you’re in a relationship or talking to a guy and feeling extremely frustrated. He might be, “Stonewalling” you and I hope you know that shit is evil, manipulative, and a form of ABUSE if intentional. Please read.


This form of abuse is most common in men…but anyone can do it. Basically it’s when one partner refuses to communicate with another partner. You know when you get pissed off because you’re trying to tell the guy your’e talking to that something he does upsets you and he responds by saying “ok” and then you say he’s not listening and he  says ” I said okay” and you’re frustrated and you get angry at his lack of communication and he lets you get angry because he knows you’ll feel guilty about it later even though HE’S THE ONE BEING ABUSIVE. Seriously if this in any way relates to your life please read and realize that in spite of what he may want you to think YOU ARE NOT CRAZY. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. He’s an ass who doesn’t deserve you. I had to share this because it saved me from a seriously horrible relationship. 

this is important. I had that happening and didn’t even realise what the hell was going on.









Shit happened to Ferguson is happening in Hong Kong right now!

Students were just protesting peacefully for genuine democracy around Admiralty and Central, yet the police forced used pepper spray, tear gas and violence to disperse the crowd. According to the protesters, the police even raided a first aid booth with pepper spray.

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Police around the world fucking up.


pop-feminism, as in the feminism that pop culture artists promote, is often if not always, not something the common woman can relate to. These artists often comes from privilege, and now that have much more than most women could ever imagine. Their point of view will be…