Messy blog with everything ranging from things that enrage me, things that I desire and things that I simply adore. Things of importance to me, in short.


Yh I’m creeped out by how Ariana Grande is sexualised and also made to look like a child simultaneously. Whoever is marketing her needs to stop it.


615. A muggleborn creating a magical side to the internet to protect the secrecy of the wizarding world, while still letting wizards vent on the internet about how potions is too difficult and they have too much homework. Another muggleborn creating a wizarding google.

Resources for Male Survivors


I posted last week asking people if they knew of some good resources for male victims of sexual assault. Here is the list people came up with:

Thanks everyone.

"If more women make porn that is “female-friendly” (whatever that means), it won’t destroy the porn industry or make that industry one that isn’t a primarily sexist one that promotes the abuse and degradation of women. If we regulate the sex industry, it won’t change the fact that prostitution exists on a foundation of colonialism, capitalism, and patriarchy and is an industry that exists to benefit men and reinforce women’s roles as subordinate.”

The divide isn’t between ‘sex negative’ and ‘sex positive’ feminists — it’s between liberal and radical feminism

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Female friendly porn is an oxymoron.. anyone that claims otherwise is just a fucking moron

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"Collective movements for social justice do not gain traction through niceness. American women did not gain the right to vote by skipping down Pennsylvania Avenue while whistling cute songs about suffrage: they picketed, they marched, they yelled, they were arrested. Abusive partners and rapists will not be stopped by women having heart-to-hearts with their violators over coffee, because ghosts cannot talk and broken fingers cannot lift a latte. The patriarchy cannot be shattered by good vibes. In order to bring about change, old and oppressive structures must be destroyed. Destruction is not negative if what will grow from the rubble is something that will create a safer, healthier, stronger society.”

Feminism is Not “The F Word” — Seventh Grove

Yahoo! CEO Marissa Mayer said she doesn’t identify as a feminist because feminism is “too negative.” Here’s what I have to say about that…

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broken fingers cannot lift a latte is going to stick with me.

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Anonymous asked: Why are you so angry about JLaw's nudes being leaked? I thought you didn't like her.


  • i am angry because this is just another example of women being shamed for taking nudes instead of the douchebag who spreads them being shamed for violating someone’s privacy like that
  • i am angry because nobody deserves this, regardless of how i feel about their personality
  • i am angry because this is pure misogyny and shows how women aren’t respected in our culture
  • i am angry because she did not consent to having those pics posted everywhere but they still were
  • i am angry because on the VERY RARE occasion this happens to a male celeb he is not shamed but rather the perpetrator is and it’s forgotten quickly whereas this will haunt jennifer for years and years to come
  • i am angry because this was a sex crime and people are treating it like a joke
  • i am angry because she is being exploited/objectified and some gross dudebros are probably jacking off to those pics 
  • i am angry because people are CONGRATULATING the fucker who did such an atrocious thing to her instead of being appalled 

listen i may not like her personally but the fact remains that as a human being she is entitled to body autonomy and to choose who sees her naked body and who doesn’t 

Porn Is Not Sex


Every time I make an anti-porn post, I get accused of “shaming people’s sexuality” and/or “shaming sex.” As I have said numerous times, pornography is not sex. We all live in a patriarchy, and the porn industry at large is dominated by men and caters to men; this is true whether or not you want it to be. Pornography is a capitalist product created to meet popular consumer demand. People really aren’t getting what this means, so I’m going to have to get graphic.

That’s your warning: this post contains detailed information about what takes place in pornographic films. Read only if you’re up to it.

The Internet Adult Film Database catalogues information about porn actors and actresses including their biographical information, the videos they’ve appeared in, and the acts they’ve participated in.

Here is the list of porn acts/details you can filter through for porn actresses.


Facial: a male ejaculates on a female’s face
Bald: the actress has no pubic hair
Creampie: a male ejaculates into a female’s vagina or anus
Anal: a male penetrates a female’s anus with his penis
Interracial: IAFD only uses this when white actors/actresses work with black actors/actresses
Swallow: a female swallows semen
DP: double penetration—one male penetrates a female’s vagina while another male penetrates her anus at the same time
DPP: double pussy penetration—two males penetrate a female’s vagina with their penises at the same time
Fisting: a fist is inserted into a female’s vagina or anus
LezOnly: only females perform together
Squirt: a female ejaculates
DAP: two males penetrate a female’s anus with their penises at the same time
MastOnly: masturbation only—the actress performs alone
NonSex: no sex happens
A2M: ass-to-mouth—a male penetrates a female’s anus with his penis and then penetrates her mouth or another actress’s mouth without washing

So, let’s talk about these porn actresses who supposedly love their jobs so much. I’ve picked out some of the most popular porn stars and included screenshots of some of the videos they’ve done.

Tera Patrick



Jesse Jane


Bree Olson




Sasha Grey


Chanel Preston


Brooklyn Lee


Lily Carter


Lily LaBeau


Remy LaCroix


Bobbi Starr


Asa Akira


Joanna Angel


Lexi Belle


DO YOU SEE A FUCKING PATTERN YET? LOOK AT THE ACTS THAT ARE NOTED AND LOOK AT THE VIDEO TITLES. It’s anal, facial, cumswap, creampie, BJ, DP, etc. over and over and over and over again. It’s Asian Street Hookers, Assfucked Sluts, Fuck Slaves, Gang Bang 5, titles that, in ANY other context, would be decried as sexist and degrading to women. It’s the same phallocentric, dick-pleasing, male-serving garbage again and again. And the fetishisation of lesbians for male viewers is disgusting. This is what pornsick men are watching, masturbating to, and this is what young boys start getting into by age 14, give or take a year.

This is not sex. This is not female sexuality. This is patriarchal, misogynistic, and racist trash, scripted by straight white men for straight white men.

Keep in mind that these actresses are just some of the better-known ones, which means that their videos get watched the most, rated the highest, etc. There are many women in the industry who are obscure and earn far less money, and if they’re unwilling to take part in the mainstream hardcore acts, they’re highly unlikely to gain recognition or higher pay.

Acts in adult films, listed here more or less in order of increasing pay, progress from blow job to girl-girl, boy-girl, anal, double penetration, double vaginal, double anal, and gang bang—the lingua franca for an industry whose most prized performance is as mechanical as it is mundane: swallow.

Stop saying that “not all porn is like that.” Stop bringing up “ethical” and “female friendly” porn—NO porn should be unethical or anti-female. Stop accusing me of “shaming” women’s sexuality because sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass by 25 men is NOT female sexuality. It is MALE sexuality. Stop accusing me of “shaming” porn actresses, when I have done no such thing. I criticise the way the industry works, the way it eroticises female submission and female masochism, and the way it affects society as well as women’s status within it. Stop claiming that all or most porn actresses enjoy what they do because you have NO way of knowing that. And even if they do, that doesn’t mean porn isn’t misogynistic. We don’t decide that a certain film or TV show isn’t misogynistic just because actresses agreed to play roles in them. Rape and abuse happen on porn sets all the time, so do be aware of that and acknowledge the fact that, since you can never be 100% sure that everyone has consented to every act in every scene with every person, you just might be watching someone’s rape. And finally, stop throwing temper tantrums at me for “making you feel guilty” for watching porn because if you watch this shit, you SHOULD feel guilty.

Genuine female sexuality is untainted by patriarchy and performance and service to men. We don’t know quite what female sexuality will look like when patriarchy is overthrown, but it will be a hell of a lot better and safer and pleasurable than this nasty, disgusting, dick-centered, heteronormative garbage.

"This is just fucking great”
— Someone who doesn’t think this is just fucking great (via inaudibleecho)